Good connections start with clear boundaries.
Getting to know someone in a new place should happen at a pace you are comfortable with. These practical precautions can help you stay in control, from the first conversation to a first meeting.
Understand what verification means
A verification badge means a submitted selfie has been reviewed by the team. It is not a background check or a guarantee of someone’s identity, intentions, or behavior. Not every member is verified. Look for consistency in conversations, and stop if you feel pressured or uncomfortable.
Keep personal details private
Avoid sharing your home address, hotel room number, travel documents, passwords, or payment details in a conversation. Keep early chats on the platform. Requests for urgent money, gift cards, cryptocurrency, or help with a supposed travel emergency are reasons to pause. Do not send money to someone you have only met online.
Plan a first meeting you can leave easily
Choose a busy public place, arrange your own transport, and tell someone you trust where you are going and when you expect to be back. Keep control of your drinks, belongings, accommodation, and return journey. You can change your mind about a meeting or activity at any time.
Use blocking and reporting
You can report or block a member from their profile. Include relevant details when reporting concerning behavior so the moderation team has context. If you are in immediate danger, contact local emergency services. The platform’s reporting tools are not an emergency response service.